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Snow People

During a blizzard, it’s been pretty rad getting realtime temp and snow level updates online and via Twitter from others in the Charlottesville community.  I’ve been following @cbs19weather and @nbc29 for the latest during the storm, and after the fact to hear about road conditions and more.

My husband’s been out and about every day in his 4×4 truck, but I’ve been at home with Calvin.

We’ve ventured outside to build a snow boy. (Calvin was particular about the name).

And today, we went on a walk around the block today to see the neighbor’s chickens.

Along the way, we helped an elderly lady who’d stumbled in the snow while trying to shovel her sidewalk (and avoid the ticket the city threatens to give starting tomorrow).  We also found a very large UPS truck that couldn’t quite make the turn in the snow…since the city hasn’t been able to plow all the secondary streets (yet, they’re going to fine city residents who don’t shovel their walks…makes perfect sense).

Side note: 30 minutes later, the UPS truck was still stuck…even with 2 employees shoveling around the tires and 6 other neighbors pushing…Steve “towed” them out and pulled them downhill.

A recent tweet from @nbc29:

There is a hidden benefit to a snow storm like what Charlottesville experienced this past weekend: it has kept crime down. http://ow.ly/OIoW

That’s pretty awesome.  Even more awesome is seeing this place act more like a community when everyone’s going through a similar hardship.

  • Folks with power and running water offered to house friends who were without
  • Over 1000 people with 4 wheel drive volunteered to shuttle hospital personnel to work, family members to care for their parents in nursing homes, and help stranded motorists
  • Neighbors shared snow shovels, and some even shoveled snow for their neighbors
  • Neighbors shared food with one another

This place started to feel like Christmas a little early…not because of the hustle and bustle with shopping, pretty sparkly lights, or guys dressed in red suits with white beards…but because people in this town cared for one another when there was a freakish snow storm that made this place feel like it was a little less modern and convenient.

Neighbors acted a little more neighborly.

Although nature’s storms bring lots of havoc and residual problems, I do like that time and time again, they usually cause communities to knit together a little tighter as we pick up the pieces after the fact.

May your home be warm, and your loved ones be by your side this Christmas…that’s all that really matters, anyway.

Merry Christmas!

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Snail’s Pace

In case you didn’t hear, we got a lot of snow in central Virginia over the weekend.  There are still 4,000 homes without power, and there’s still stranded cars on the roads.

Yet in our home, we’ve been warm, safe, and snug.

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The pace of life slowed significantly.  I was bustling about balancing work, family, and home, and suddenly…we’re stuck inside all weekend long (and today!).

I’m actually caught up on Christmas cards, although I’m lacking updated addresses for three families.  I’ve been cooking a ton (meaning, I’ve also been washing a lot of dishes), and doing several loads of laundry.

We have power and internet, so it’s been fun watching Discovery channel shows on sharks, mammals, and dinosaurs via Netflix.

I’ve even got most of the gifts for my nieces and nephews prepared to ship for Christmas.  Hey, the mail carriers weren’t exactly out and about in central Virginia this weekend, but they may start getting caught up by tomorrow.

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I don’t feel behind, rather, I feel relaxed and rejuvenated.  I enjoyed a wonderful weekend with my family, and it’s extending into Monday.

What matters most are here with me under this roof…my two guys.

After a morning filled with indoor Tonka truck races and LOTS of books read, my son came up to me and asked to take a nap…2 hours earlier than usual.  Before I could even put a clean diaper on him, he’d crawled into his bed and asked us to turn out the light.  Oh yes, I like age two very much!

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Record Snowfall

We’re having a record snowfall in Virginia.  At present, we have 22 inches of snow accumulation in our backyard…and counting!

Here’s our street, 12 hours after the snowfall began last night.  Obviously, the plows haven’t made it to our street.

Steve and our neighbor drove around in the 4-wheel drive truck to help folks who were stranded, and to transport hospital personnel who were stuck at home.  They also dropped a woman off to a local nursing home to care for her mother since the nurses weren’t able to make it in.

When Steve came back with our neighbor Tim, I had a huge pot of warm butternut squash soup waiting for them.

Calvin was eager to check out the snow.  So, I bundled him up in 5 layers of clothing, and let him tromp around in snow as high as his chest.You think this is a lot of snow?  First notice Calvin’s height…his boot hits just below his Daddy’s coat line.

Yep, it’s a lot!

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Another Year Older and Wiser

Guess what?  Today’s my birthday!  The woman who gave birth to me actually forgot, and she thought it was yesterday. I’m not THAT old…

There were 3 birthday celebrations that were especially memorable to me.

1. I was about to turn 6, and my grandparents drove me from Dallas, Texas to Disneyland in Anaheim, California.  I had an incredible one-day adventure with them.  We continued driving through a tree in the Redwood National Forest in northern California, and we ended up in their home in eastern Washington.  On my actual birthday, I decorated the tree and helped my grandmother bake and decorate Christmas cookies.  That evening, I wore a brand new birthday dress, and I celebrated with my family.  It wasn’t just an incredible birthDAY, it was a memorable birthday MONTH!

2. My first year in college at the University of Texas at Austin, my friends Christa, Kenan, Stephanie, and Christina from Air Force ROTC threw me a surprise party complete with a german chocolate cake.  The party was a welcome break from studying for final exams.  They were “family” away from home–incredibly sweet and thoughtful.  I’ll never forget them and how they lifted my spirits!

3.   In 2006, my last birthday before I became Calvin’s mama, we spent a week visiting a friend in Nashville.  On the night of my birthday, we enjoyed a homemade meal of chicken cacciatore and a tiramisu cheesecake from the Cheesecake Factory.  When Steve brought the candlelit cheesecake to the table, I was serenaded by 7 guys…half of whom were professional recording artists.  Ladies, it doesn’t get any better than that!

This year, it’s gonna be low key, and I wouldn’t want anything else.  After a hectic-crazy-pull-my-hair-out couple of weeks at the office, I want nothing more than to do…NOTHING.

I’m planning to bake homemade meatballs served on a bed of spinach leaves and sprinkled with asiago cheese.  I’ll enjoy dinner at home with my two guys.  Once Calvin is tucked in bed for the evening, Steve and I will curl up on the couch and watch a movie via Netflix.  Perfect evening.  Perfect birthday.

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Homemade Gifts for Christmas

I’m finishing up gifts for my nieces and nephews…many of these are homemade.  I haven’t embroidered anything since I was 11 years-old, but some how I got an urge to whip up some fabric creations from scratch.

I think I was inspired by all the beautiful creativity available on Etsy or cute shops like JasperHeartsWren who made my all-time favorite hoodie worn by Calvin.

I asked friends and family to use their fabric scraps.  I used embroidery floss, scraps of felt, unused spare buttons…and then, I let my imagination run wild.

Here’s what I made for one of my nieces (she’s only 8 months-old, so even though I posted this, I think she’ll still be surprised).

I also made a shirt for her brother with cowboy boot shapes I cut out of red “bandanna” fabric.

When I showed the two shirts to Calvin, I asked him what he thought.

Me: Do you like this shirt for your cousin? [when referring to the royal blue t-shirt with red bandanna cowboy boots].

Calvin: Nooo!

Me: Okay, how about this one? [referring to the flower shirt in the photo above]

Calvin: On, please [while he tried to pull it on].

It was a two-year-old’s feedback, but it WAS feedback.  So, I added a little more to the cowboy boot shirt…some extra embroidery to look like red and white swirls dancing forth from the boots with buttons on the top of the boots.

I’d show you a photo, but I mailed the darn thing to my nephew before I remembered to snap a photo.

End result, Calvin thought it was MUCH better, and he wanted to wear that one, too.

So, I have another plain blue shirt…and I want to make something sweet for Calvin, but I’m fresh out of creative ideas.  Although a turtle-shaped cookie cutter could definitely come in handy as a stencil!

YOUR TURN: Are you making homemade gifts for Christmas?  What’s your favorite homemade gift project?

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Eat Pancakes – Help a Widow and Her Children

You may have heard about the University of Virginia medical student, John Jones, who recently died in a spelunking accident in Utah over Thanksgiving.

John Jones passed away at the tender age of 26, leaving behind his young widow Emily who’s now the sole parent for their 14-month-old daughter Elizabeth.  Emily is also expecting her second baby in June.

Friends to this family are rallying together for a memorial fundraiser to help this family continue.  Visit www.johnjonesmemorial.com for information on how you can donate to help this family.

If you live in Charlottesville, join the Pancake Fundraiser this Saturday, December 19th at the Applebees on 29 North to eat your fill of breakfast and donate to the memorial fund.  During this Christmas season, let’s shower this family with love and support from the people in their community.

Breakfast Pancake Fundraiser for the John Jones Memorial

When: Saturday, December 19th, 2009 from 7:30 AM – 9:30 AM

Where: Applebees on 29 North (next to Toys R Us); 571 Branchlands Boulevard, Charlottesville, Virginia 22901

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For Kids: Memory-Making Gifts

I’m not really into giving small kids impractical gifts for Christmas.  In fact, I’ve almost always made a point to give my nieces and nephews great books or something else that’s practical and useful and perhaps educational.

My fondest Christmas memory from childhood was the first year I made Christmas cookies with my grandmother.  On my 6th birthday, we made petit coat tails (a shortbread cookie with delicate icing flours), Russian tea cakes, sugar cookies, and Esses (“S”-shaped).

I felt so grown-up wearing an apron and using the icing bag on the delicate cookies.

Child to Cherish, a company that is excellent at creating innovative memory-making keepsakes, created a new “Little Baker” suitcase collection designed by Patricia Lowe. There’s 6 suitcases available: 3 that are perfect gifts from parents or aunts and uncles (boy, girl, Christmas), and 3 that are specifically designed as gifts from grandmas (boy, girl, Christmas).

We got to try their adorable red Christmas-themed suitcase with tree, gingerbread man, and star cookie cutter shapes, a toddler-sized wooden rolling pin, and a toddler-sized wooden spoon.  The suitcase also includes a red apron with the sweet embroidery “Little Baker,” and 4 cookie recipes for Christmastime.

The day before we baked cookies, I let Calvin use flour and water to make dough with the Little Baker set.

The wooden spoon and rolling pin were the perfect size for a toddler’s small hands.  My son loved measuring, pouring, and stirring dry ingredients.

We made whole-wheat flour chocolate chip cookies with sukenot over the weekend.  Calvin Mommy insisted that he wore his red apron while he baked, because it is just too adorable.

Calvin enjoyed tasting the result of his labor.  I let him have one very small cookie, and he washed it down with raw milk.

I’m looking forward to trying some tasty gluten-free cookie recipes with the tools in the Little Baker Suitcase later this month, and every year around Christmas.

This is a wonderful gift to enrich lasting memories around the holidays with your child.  The Child to Cherish Little Baker Suitcase retails for $42.99.

Child to Cherish not only creates wonderful gifts to capture memories, but they have gift options to help make the earth a little greener: Plant a Christmas Tree for Me.  Their mini greenhouse is complete with a Christmas tree pellet and instructions.  All you need to add is water and sunlight.  Simple, right?

At 3 and 1/4inches tall with a red-ribbon topper, it’s perfect to hang on the tree the night before Christmas.  The Plant a Christmas Tree for Me retails for $6.99.

WIN IT!

One winner  will receive a Plant a Tree for Me, (retail value $6.99).  Stay in the know and win a Nest Egg by becoming a Child to Cherish fan on Facebook.

To enter, leave a comment relevant to this post prior to December 21st at 11:59 p.m.  Please follow the contest rules and avoid any generalized comments, or you will be disqualified.

FOR A SECOND ENTRY: complete a quick 10-question reader demographic survey. Then, leave a second comment telling me that you did.

FOR A THIRD ENTRY: Blog or Tweet about the Holiday Gift Guide (or about this giveaway), then leave a second comment telling me that you tweeted or blogged with a link to your tweet/post.

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A Little Baker Suitcase and a Plant a Christmas Tree for Me were provided for the purpose of this review.  Read Traveling with Baby’s complete disclosure policy.

*UPDATE*

Congrats to the winner, #1 Leslie!

X the TXT: Thumbs Up for the Safest Holiday Ever

What’s the number one cause of death among teenagers?

Car crashes.

According  to a recent study by Virginia Tech, drivers are 23 times more likely to be involved in a collision if texting.  

Think about how long it took for you to become a fairly competent driver.  It wasn’t two weeks after you finished driver’s ed…but several years of practice on the roads.

Studies have shown that teens are particularly susceptible to dangerous distractions while driving, especially from the use of their cell phones.

There’s numerous studies on this topic from as early as 1997 to as recently as last month…just google “driving while on the phone” to start reading about the articles and studies.  There was even a story on an ABC station called “Driving while on the phone risks lives” with a strong emphasis on greater risk while texting.

According to The Allstate Foundation, “two thirds of teens admit to texting and instant messaging while behind the wheel! Yet nearly 81% of teens rate parents as their number one driving influencers.”

Discussing safe driving behavior with a teen can help prevent a car crash and potentially death.

I know this is a blog geared toward parents with small children, but many of you have adolescent children, nieces, nephews, or friends and neighbors.

Let’s work together to make this the safest holiday by joining in solidarity behind a cause where we can take a pledge for safe driving by avoiding phone texting.

Let’s set a great example for the teen drivers in our lives.

Allstate’s “X the TXT: Thumbs Up to the Safest Holiday Ever” campaign challenges teens and parents alike to make the pledge not to text and drive. By joining the cause on Facebook, you’re pledging to put your cell phone down behind the wheel.

For each person who takes the pledge, Allstate will donate $1 to the National Organizations for Youth Safety (NOYS) – a collaborative network of national organizations and federal agencies that serve youth and focus on youth safety and health – for safe teen driving programs.

So…what are you waiting for?  It’s free to join, and you’re supporting a cause to encourage safe driving in your community.  Win-win!

Have a safe and happy holiday season!

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I wrote this review while participating in a blog tour campaign by Mom Central on behalf of The Allstate Foundation. Mom Central sent me a gift card to thank me for taking the time to participate.
*1st photo by indyplanets via Flickr.
**2nd photo by Ford via Flickr.

Health Happy Round-Up: Feverishly Good

Fevers are a bad thing…right?

The media hype on fevers can make even the most calm parent nervous when a baby feels unusually warm.  However, the fever is the body’s way of fighting disease…and, that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

According to an article written by Dr. Peter N. Fysh, DC in Dynamic Chiropractic, May 7, 1993:

Fever is a symptom and not a disease. It is the body’s normal response to infections, a response which stimulates the immune system by releasing and activating white blood cells and interferon.

According to the article (great read, by the way) by Linda B. White and Sunny Mavor in Fever in Children: A Blessing in Disguise:

It may help parents to remember that fever is only one part of the picture of an illness. In fact, for children under eight years of age, and especially for infants, the severity of a fever is an unreliable indicator of the severity of the child’s illness. For example, infants and toddlers can be very sick with a low or even subnormal temperature. Conversely, children three to eight years old can be running about quite cheerfully with a fairly impressive fever. The important thing is how your child is acting, not the thermometer reading.

When should I be concerned about a high temperature?

First and foremost to take a temperature, you need a thermometer.  According to the textbook Chiropractic Care for Pediatric Patients by Peter N. Fysh, D.C., F.I.C.C.P. published by the International Chiropractors Association Council on Chiropractic Pediatrics,

Temperature should be checked and recorded in infants who present with upper respiratory infections, earache symptoms or other signs of infection.

What is a fever?

In most adults, an oral temperature above 100°F (37.78°C) or a rectal or ear temperature above 101°F (38.3°C) is considered a fever. A child has a fever when his or her rectal temperature is 100.4°F (38°C) or higher.

NOTE: “In the first two months of life, any baby with a fever of 101°F (38.3°C) or higher should be immediately evaluated by an appropriate physician because the immune system has not yet had time to become competent to defend against invading pathogens.”1

  • A rectal or ear (tympanic membrane) temperature reading is 0.5 to 1°F (0.3 to 0.6°C) higher than an oral temperature reading.
  • A temperature taken in the armpit is 0.5 to 1°F (0.3 to 0.6°C) lower than an oral temperature reading.

Home Remedies for Children & Babies with Fever

In many cases, there are things you can do at home to help your child become more comfortable with a fever…and you can even reduce a high-grade fever to a low-grade level where it can still burn off an infection without making your child miserable.  Consider the following:

  • Spend as much time with your child as possible, and help get his mind off of discomfort by reading books and snuggling with him
  • Provide diluted juices or breastfeed more frequently to help your child remain hydrated.  Coconut water or carrot juice are beneficial for feverish children.  Breastmilk will help your baby or toddler increase immunity against the infection.
  • Give your child a sponge bath or sitz bath in tepid water–especially if it’s a high grade fever, or your child is hot and sweaty.  Alternate between warm and cool (tepid) water–cycling every 30 seconds to flush out the fever.  Add tea tree oil or lavender essential oil to the water for external use only.
  • Your child may lose his appetite due to the fever, and only desire to ingest fluids for a couple of days.  Consider the fruit or vegetable juices noted above.  Once your child is over the fever, he’ll need to regain his energy with nutrition-dense foods, void of sugar and processed dairy.  Add grass-fed beef, chicken, eggs, wild-caught fish, hearty vegetables, clear soups, yams, and antioxidant-rich berries to his post-fever meals.
  • Remove extra clothing and bedding to help your child with temperature regulation.  A single layer of a cotton shirt and pants and a thin cotton sheet will help your child regulate and cool down.

When to call your Doctor

  • If your child’s temperature exceeds 104°F (40°C) AND/OR
  • If your child is limp, lifeless, unresponsive, and doesn’t make eye contact AND/OR
  • If your child is irritable–cries non-stop for hours in a monotonous tone, and is inconsolable AND/OR
  • If your child is expressing symptoms of meningitis (such as a high fever, a stiff neck, neck pain, vomiting, convulsions, rash, sensitivity to bright lights.  In a newborn, a bulging cranial suture).

Temperature Reading Options

The most accurate readings on a newborn are rectal readings.  Until a child is at least age 5, you can’t get them to safely an accurately hold a thermometer under the tongue for an accurate oral temperature reading.  Axillary or armpit temperature readings may work secondarily, but they’re not as accurate as oral (for children over 5 years of age) and rectal (from birth to age 5).

Tympanic (inner ear) readings are the least accurate, and they require a new covering for each reading. Oral temperature readings are affected greatly if a very hot or cold drink was ingested just prior to the temperature reading.

A new study in peer-reviewed American Journal of Critical Care found temporal artery thermometers superior since they are comparable to rectal readings…and they can take a reading in less than 2 seconds!

I keep my Exergen Temporal Scanner in my doctor’s bag when I make house calls to check babies and adults…this is a thermometer that travels well that I can use on all age ranges.  It’s simple to use and results are FAST!

Swipe it across the forehead; and in two seconds, you’re done!  The digital read out tells you the accurate temperature reading.

TheExergen thermometer retails from $30 to $50, and it’s available at Toys “R” Us, Walmart, and Amazon.com.

WIN IT!

One winner will receive an Exergen temporal thermometer.

To enter, leave a topic-related comment on this post before December 21st at 11:59 p.m. (Don’t forget to follow the contest rules–all generic comments are ineligible.).  U.S. mailing address must be provided, please.

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Note 1. Fysh PN. Chiropractic Care for the Pediatric Patient. International Chiropractors Association Council on Chiropractic Pediatrics. Arlington, VA; 2002. p. 63.

*UPDATE* Congratulations #22, Laureen!

Wordless Wednesday: Daddy and Son Bonding

Er…napping.

When Calvin awoke a little early from his Sunday afternoon nap, he needed extra snuggle time with his Daddy.

As in, an extra hour of nap time and snuggle time on the couch.

It kinda reminded me of this photo of the two of them when Calvin was only 5 weeks old.

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